The future is fixed, and it cannot be chosen, predicted, or rushed. Doubt may persist throughout life, but the unknown unfolds in its own time. People seek direction, believing in the idea of choosing a path, a dream, or a purpose. However, these choices, while not inherently wrong, are often illusions—white lies meant to provide hope, meaning, or something to hold onto. When answers are sought and not found, disappointment can follow, leading many to offer comforting falsehoods rather than leaving others in despair. Life is unpredictable—long, chaotic, difficult, easy, and random. Despite this uncertainty, there is a natural tendency to plan for stability, for something that feels meaningful, whether it be a vocation, financial security, or family. Yet, as individuals change, so do their paths. At the core, dreams, obligations, and pressures are not what sustain a person. Instead, values, critical thinking, motivation, and the ability to truly listen to oneself are essential—even if self-awareness is not yet fully developed. Life will bring unexpected challenges—loss, sacrifice, and moments of hardship. But it also presents encounters that leave a profound impact. Along the way, there may be someone who inspires growth, someone who sees value even before it is recognized in oneself. Such connections, built on genuine acceptance and mutual support, can bring clarity. They reveal strengths long overlooked and provide a reason to move forward. Openness to change is crucial, even when it is painful. Losing oneself in doubt or overanalyzing the unknown can become an obstacle. Sometimes, the answers have been present all along, waiting to be acknowledged. Moments of collapse can reveal forgotten aspects of the self—qualities once abandoned due to judgment from others but which, in hindsight, were essential tools for authenticity. Hardships serve as reminders that taking action before reaching a breaking point is necessary. Struggles often lead to personal growth, and in the end, actions speak louder than words. Love, purpose, and dedication are not merely expressed; they are demonstrated through consistent, sincere actions. Rather than changing to fit external expectations, genuine transformation comes from evolving naturally alongside others, growing together for the better. Ultimately, no one should allow the world—or their own doubts—to pull them to the deepest depths without remembering to return to their true selves. The only person capable of discovering the right path is the one willing to embrace change while remaining authentic. Life is a series of encounters and events, both painful and joyful, some of which may never be given a chance. The choice of whether to embrace them is personal. In the end, finding purpose is not about external validation but about choosing a path, fully aware that it may change with time. If suffering is inevitable, it should at least be for something personally meaningful—something worth enduring. Some battles cannot be fought for others, no matter how much pain it might spare them. That is why prioritizing one's own decisions is essential, as only the individual will bear the consequences. Not every change is good, instant or visible, sometimes you simply feel overwhelmed, tired of everybody's words, but the truth is... not only you repeat them all day long, but one to themself is worse, so "hey, it's fine, what you are feeling is normal, correct and only yours, nobody can come tell you how to feel it nor say anything about it, because it is us and only us, within our flesh and bones who are the only ones that must bear with it. Might have all the support in the world, that the fight is only meant for one "you"." Be yourself and feel things, do things, as you feel like it.